Dating shy women
A new relationship is a super exciting time when you’re getting to know someone and really enjoying that nice honeymoon stage that is hard to find in a more long-term dating situation. Because if you’re a shy girl, like me, a new relationship is an exciting but nerve-wracking time when you’re trying to be really close with someone you still feel very awkward around. When your boyfriend/girlfriend isn’t around, you do whatever you can to avoid being near their parents. You very rarely speak up about how you feel or what you want. You take things pretty slow when it comes to hooking up.
I’ve written about my shy girl struggles before, and surprise surprise, they don’t just disappear when you start dating someone. And you get even more uncomfortable when you have to meet and be around their family. It’s not that you don’t like them, it’s just that they make you want to crawl out of your shaking skin and hide. You start using your partner as a crutch whenever you’re in social situations.
Before I dive into several useful tips on meeting shy girls, I believe it’s important to address the question whether it is a good idea, for you, as a guy, to try to approach, meet and date these shy girls. First, many girls who make an impression of being shy are not actually shy at all once you break the ice and get to know them.
Other girls are shy at first but later prove to be very outgoing socially and otherwise.
Such a girl might just be smarter, more interesting, and more passionate in bed than many of those women who like to be in the “spotlight” or who also are known as “attention whores.” Further, shy girls are a rare kind this day and age, when girls have so much experience, being bombarded with all kinds of communication from guys on Facebook, Tinder, Ok Cupid, etc…
Girls today meet more guys and go out on more dates than ever before, which eliminates any kind of shyness and very quickly leads them to a very bad state of being emotionally unavailable due to dating fatigue.
So, don’t perceive the low-key demeanor, modest clothing and quiet voice as negative signs.
So, if you laid your eye on a truly shy girl and would like to attract her, there are a few things you need to keep in mind.
First, she is shy for one or more of the common reasons: she might be inexperienced with men, she might b verye attracted to you as well and is afraid to do/say the wrong thing, she might be conservative, believing that she is not supposed to show any signs of interest, or she might be all of the above at the same time.
Nothing else will work unless you're comfortable in your own skin.
The other ways mentioned above are improvements to who you are and meant to help you to attract men. If you can’t be yourself, he'll notice it immediately.
So, if you a meet a girl who is actually shy, she might just be much more emotionally available for love and attachments than all the other ones.